"The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry."
~ Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell To Arms



"Our lives disconnect and reconnect, we move on, and later we may touch one another, again bounce away. This is the felt shape of a human life, neither simply linear nor wholly disjunctive nor endlessly bifurcating, but rather this bouncey sequence of bumping into's and tumblings apart."
~ Salman Rushdie, The Ground Beneath Her Feet



Monday, August 20, 2012

Friends Are Like Spoons…



“Everybody prays whether [you think] of it as praying or not. The odd silence you fall into when something very beautiful is happening or something very good or very bad. The ah-h-h-h! that sometimes floats up out of you as out of a Fourth of July crowd when the sky-rocket bursts over the water. The stammer of pain at somebody else s pain. The stammer of joy at somebody else's joy. Whatever words or sounds you use for sighing with over your own life. These are all prayers in their way.” 
~ Frederick Buechner

(Photo: Mine ~ At the Brown Dog Coffee Shop)



At the The Brown Dog Coffee Shop in Paris Ontario where I like to spend time writing, reading and drinking coffee when I am home in Canada you get a spoon in you cup to stir in whatever it is you may add (I think it is a Canadian thing).

Anyway, as I was sitting here looking at my cup of coffee with a spoon in it, the thought occurred to me – friends are like spoons. Certain friends, just the right ones come along at particular times and seasons in your life when you need a cup grace and these friends/spoons help stir whatever it is you need into your life to help make it beautiful and bearable while at a the café of life on our journey of discovery.

A prayer for everyone to experience ~ even if fleeting:

To courageously put the past to rest ~ to hopefully anticipate the future ~ to authentically live in each present moment ~ to glimpse grace in these most difficult of things



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